Tributes #2 - to Recognize Those Who Have Passed

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William Fred Graham (1930-2021) was a retired Professor, a minister, an author, speaker, teacher, a husband, father, and all-around good man. He was one to be respected in every way. Fred was born in Columbus, Ohio, 31 October 1930, son of W. Fred ''Ted” and Serena (Clark) Graham. He graduated from Reynoldsburg High School in 1948, where he was very active in sports. He was a lifelong baseball fan. Fred went to Tarkio College in Missouri, earning his AB in 1952, then to the Pittsburgh Theological Seminary for his bachelor’s degree in 1955. He received a Master of Theology degree from Louisville Presbyterian Seminary in 1958 and earned Doctor of Philosophy from the University of Iowa in 1965. 

An ordained minister, he served churches in Iowa, and on an interim basis in Michigan. He was a member of Lake Michigan Presbyterian (Presbyterian Church, USA) and sang in the choir at Eastminster Presbyterian Church in East Lansing, where his ashes will be interred in the church gardens.

In 1953, he married Jean Garrett of Braddyville, Iowa, who was his companion in ministry and during his 30 years on the faculty at Michigan State University. In addition to his Jean, he is survived by four daughters: Terese ''Terry” of East Lansing, Bonny of Champaign, Illinois, Marcy (Doug) of Kirksville, Missouri, and Geneva ''Genny'' (Chris) of Vienna, Virginia. Also surviving are six grandchildren and one great granddaughter: Marcy, Reese, and Peter Havlatka, Will Murphy, and Benjamin and Samuel Looker, and Reese's daughter April. Two sisters also survive him: Grace Tanner of Columbus, Ohio, and Lucia Sims of Lawrence, Kansas.

Much of his work as a scholar was in 16th and 17th century history. He wrote books on John Calvin, on the Reformation in Scotland, as well as the sociology of religion. Locally, he was president of the Michigan State University chapter of the Honors Society Phi Kappa Phi. In retirement he served as president of the Michigan State University Retirees Association. In a lighter vein, he wrote occasional pieces on running and religion, on church growth and decline, on ecumenical issues, and doggerel from the family Christmas cards.

His accomplishments include Emeritus Professor at Michigan State University in East Lansing (Instructor, 1963-64; Assistant Professor, 1964-69; Associate Professor, 1969-73; Professor, 1973-92). Fred was an ordained Presbyterian Minister; Pastor, Bethel United Presbyterian Church, Waterloo, Iowa, 1955-61. President, Sixteenth-Century Studies Society, 1988-89. His publications include The Constructive Revolutionary: John Calvin and His Socio-Economic Impact, 1971; Picking Up the Pieces: A Christian Stance in a Godless Age, 1975; (editor) Later Calvinism: International Perspectives, 1994. William Fred Graham has been listed as a noteworthy Religious studies educator by Marquis Who's Who.Fred earned a Grantee Travel to Collections Grant National Endowment for the Humanities, Scotland, 1985, Finance Grant American Philosophical Society, Scotland, 1987. And he was president (1987, 1991) of the Calvin Studies Society, American Society for Church History, Phi Kappa Phi.

He will be remembered as a kind man who tried to blend humor and faith in whatever he did, whether playing a game, running, singing, or teaching. He enjoyed playing golf, tennis, and softball with his friends, but was not avid at his games. He believed that nature betrayed, but did not parade, its creation and sustenance by God, and that the same God spoke to him and called him to ministry by Jesus of Nazareth.

His family is peaceful in the knowledge that he will be playing baseball with his youthful body in the hereafter on God's team.

June 13, 2021

Mary Turner Stoots ~ president, Reynoldsburg-Truro Historical Society

Grace Tanner sent me an email today that broke my heart. Another member of the historical society has passed away. When I first took office, Fred and I spoke a couple of times. He tolerated my questions with patience and kindness. I found out that he was a Dr. of Theology and Presbyterian minister. Most importantly, he was raised in my church, and maybe he could explain the difference between a First Presbyterian and a United Presbyterian. I never understood as a kid why we had two Presbyterian churches a block apart in this small town. Am I the only one that wondered about that? 

I never got the chance to meet him, but I will miss him, and his bantering emails with Ray Karnes and Grace Tanner. 

His picture is from the 1948 Reynoldsburg High School Yearbook. Under the “Campus Leaders” section, there’s a cartoon of Fred as a bookworm. He was on the Editorial Staff for the Reynolian; on the Franklin County Honor Society; Varsity R, Varsity Basketball, Baseball, and Track. 

By his picture it says, “An athlete and a mighty one, who plays the game until it’s won.” Absent-minded professor in the Senior play … crazy crew cut … glasses … sister Grace … screwball … hobby-baseball …friend to all.

Rest in peace friend …

Maryalys always sent me an email when she liked an article in the Courier. That was the only contact I had with her.

By her Reynoldsburg High School 1943 senior picture (on the right), it has, 

Mac - Girl Reserves, Band, Glee Club, Mixed Chorus, Sextet, Honor Society, F.H.A., Annual Staff 

Since Obituaries are always so cut and dried, stating mostly facts, I wanted her to have an introduction, so I asked her younger brother, Ray, to write something. Hold on to your hat!

~ Mary Turner Stoots

From the desk of Raymond G. Karnes:

This may ramble a bit but what else can you expect from me?

Maryalys was a rebellious sort as far back as I can remember and the only one of we kids with whom dad ever became angry despite the fact that he also had me and Archie (Butter, as MA dubbed him because she couldn't say brother) who detested school and later joined the Navy after quitting school at 17 to serve in the Pacific. Learning of this assignment provided the only time I ever saw mom cry and dad hold her close before we kids because of the cruelties which had been reported of the Japanese to their prisoners.  (You know in those days you did not publicly display love or grief in public or before your children, especially if you were United Presbyterian.  (Smile Fred, you know it's true.))  And I, who was always a smart-ass every waking moment.  Ruth was always quiet, holding a fiery temper in check only excepting occasions involving brother, Ray, and Pat Savage where there seemed to be almost a natural enmity born of generations of opposition.  (Who knows what evil lurks in the minds of teen-age girls.  Only the Shadow do.

She and dad had a guarded relationship over the years, maybe because much of her artistic ability was derived from his side of the family not mom's (Graham's).  Dad, after all had only reached the 10th grade in education and was neither famous nor wealthy, although he was a self-taught electrician, devoted husband, and father, sober and hard-working, honest, truthful, all attributes with which I'm sure you are familiar.  Although these are important characteristics among the hoi polloi, they are not particularly important to the high, mighty, wealthy, and influential.  (Do I note a shade of cynicism there?)

She and I have also enjoyed a similar relationship.  We are relaxed in our conversations, comfortable, and have a lot of fun recalling our histories but we also realize that we are far apart in most matters even if we share like political philosophies differing only in degree.   For example:  I MIGHT vote for Jesus Christ if he ran as a Democrat, she would not.

Ruth and Butter were the quiet ones.  Maryalys and I, the mouthy blowhards.  Since we were favorably inclined we naturally struck sparks and disagreed on most things, especially concerning social items.  Whereas she was impressed by the famous, influential wealthy and powerful, my experience had shown me that they knew very little more than the lower and middle-class hard-working folks except in areas (mostly unimportant) which they experienced only because of their position.  The common folk in my experience were a lot more trustworthy, tolerant and personable with senses of humor.

It was obvious that I was common early on in her college experience since I expected flowers in her paintings to look like plants and people should have the normal numbers of appendages associated with homo-sapiens and male nudes held no attraction.  They were just bare-assed hairy ugly men.  (Don't remember any females.  Do you suppose she and mom held those back from me?)

She pretty much fell out of touch for some years (to me, although she kept in contact with Mom and Dad).  I do remember taking my wife-to-be to Hamilton, Ohio where she was teaching and, by then, married to a fine man with a quiet but good sense of humor.  She was gracious in her welcome to my betrothed and probably wishing her well in the trying years ahead dealing with me.

Later on, she was a tad discomfited when learning of Jennie's pregnancy for she had allotted herself the honor of granting the folks their first grandchild, but, what the heck, she had a five-year head start and didn't take advantage of it.

In many ways MA was an enigma:  she could be the most gracious hostess, a person of great humor and laughter and a pleasure to be with.  She could also be biting, rude and a dragon.  Haughty and sometimes ill-humored or mercurial in temperament or wildly funny and outlandish in her actions.  We not only tolerated each other but somehow seemed to enjoy the times we were together.  Maybe my feeling about the wealthy influential mob contrasted well with her obeisance to it that we meshed in our Republicanism, of which my brand wandered near Libertarianism.  That is, she wanted Democrats dead, I only want them out of the way.  A matter of degree, dontcha know.

Somewhere in school she got the hated (by her) nickname of Budge (sp?) with the "u" pronounced as the "oo" in wood. Obviously, that name  died as soon as she could kill it after high school.

Miss Click, whose heartthrob was Clark Gable, told Maryalys she was not college material which may have been part of challenge of her life, certainly part of the drive to her doctorate.

She was a grad of OSU ('46), worked at the Army Depot in Columbus while in school,  taught school in Oak Ridge, Tennessee where she met her husband Ed, an engineer at the Manhattan Project, the development of the Atomic Bomb, later used to convince the Japanese that it might be wise to consider capitulation over annihilation.  Married in 1949, son, Ed in '56.

She and her family later moved to California to enjoy the sunshine, gentle weather, overall climate, and the tent communities, etc.  

In High School she was active in most everything she could be, which was generally true of her entire life to my knowledge.

Like her or not, she was unique, she was opinionated, bull-headed, single-minded, sometimes dense as a tree stump, stubborn as a mule, gracious as an angel (whoops, that may be a gross overstatement.  Lightning struck somewhere.)  Yet, she and I got along pretty well.............hmm, wonder what this says about me...................

The delay in interment was probably due to her demand for control of all earthly and spiritual conditions, including God and weather.  It is very possible that the actual weather forecast was for overcast and rain but she changed it even if it meant raining on preparations for the Queen's seventieth anniversary.

I did bring a stake just in case the cremation didn't take.  (No, you're wrong, I think she'd laugh at this statement, especially coming from me.)  

God bless her and may all things go well for her, wherever she is. Vaya con Dios, MAK!

Maryalys' Obituary:

Maryalys Karnes Hill died April 16, 2022 at her home in Newhall, California. She was 96 years old and had been a resident of Santa Clarita for almost 15 years. Prior to Santa Clarita she lived in San Diego for over 40 years. Born in Reynoldsburg, Ohio, Maryalys graduated from Ohio State University where she studied education. She taught elementary school in Oak Ridge, Tennessee during and after World War II. While living in Oak Ridge she met Edward L. Hill and they were married in 1949. They settled in Hamilton, Ohio, and their son Edward F. Hill was born in 1956.

After moving to San Diego in 1960, she received a Masters Degree from San Diego State University and later a Doctorate from United States International University. She taught art and art history at San Diego State University, San Diego Community Colleges, and Naval Base San Diego. She was the host of a local San Diego television show about art in the 1980’s. She also led museum tours discussing the art people saw as well as the context behind it. After retiring from teaching, she spent her time researching theories on the history of art as well as writing novels.

Since moving to Santa Clarita, Maryalys has enjoyed entertaining friends and family at her home and at local restaurants. She has attended many plays at the Canyon Theatre Guild and many concerts by the Santa Clarita Master Chorale. She loved spending time at the beach and especially enjoyed boat rides around Channel Islands Harbor where she liked to read off the names of the boats.

Throughout her life she loved to play the piano and sing. She also painted and drew many pieces which hang in the homes of family members.

A Celebration of Life is planned in Santa Clarita on May 21 at the home of Ed and Dana Hill. A graveside service is planned at Glen Rest Memorial Estates in Reynoldsburg, Ohio on June 3 with a Celebration of Life afterwards. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Santa Clarita Master Chorale. To give by mail, send checks to Santa Clarita Master Chorale , P.O. Box 800459, Santa Clarita, CA 91380.

Maryalys is survived by her brother Raymond Karnes, son Edward F. Hill, daughter-in-law Dana Brandt Hill, three grandchildren, two great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Just as she lived her life, Maryalys passed peacefully and on her own terms. She will be missed.

     I recently read that David (Dave) McConagha passed away in Maryland. He was one of Reynoldsburg’s proud U.S. Naval veterans. Dave was born in Columbus to Ralph and Martha McConagha. He graduated from RHS in 1959 where he played on the varsity basketball team. Dave was the class secretary and voted “Most Studious” his senior year. Dave’s Reynolian caption read: “He’s smart as a whip, yet not a square, when you want him to help he’s always there, ambition is to be successful, basketball, favorite celebrity is Yogi Bear, 5 or 6 year-old Chryslers, Honor Society.”

     In the “Letter from the Future, May 30, 1969”, a yearbook feature where a classmate wrote a fantasy letter from 10 years in the future, Judy Molnar wrote this about Dave: “At the reunion dinner table we began to talk about the lead Russia has in their space travel research. Dave McConagha was the principal speaker, for he is quite an expert on that subject. He is working at Cape Canaveral as an engineer. At the present time he is working on the intercontinental ballistic missile. We all agreed that with Dave on the job, Russia’s going to have a tough fight to stay ahead.”

     Dave married Jeanette Elena Myers (RHS 1960) in August, 1962 while he was working a Bachelor of Science degree in mathematics from The Ohio State University. Dave attended Muskingham College before he transferred to OSU. Jeanette was a varsity cheerleader at RHS. The caption in the 1960 Reynolian for Jeannette read: “Where she gets her energy, no one knows, she’s an expert at dropping pianos on toes, ambition to be an OSU cheerleader, shrimp cocktail, water skiing, 9,999.” 

     In a fictitious paper called “The Future Times” section of the yearbook dated October 30, 1980 which foretold where the RHS class of 1960 would be in 20 years at a 1980 homecoming. Jeannette’s “future” was written as: “The festivities began when Miss Jeannette Myers of the Metropolitan Opera sang the Star-Spangled Banner.” In Jeannette’s “Last Will and Testament of the Class of 1960” Jeannette wrote: “I, Jeannette Myers, bequeath my ability to move pianos to anyone who’s foolish enough to try.” Jeannette went on to become a nurse and has sung with an International award winning Sweet Adelines chorus for many years.

     Dave and Jeannette had four children: Heather (McConagha)  MacNaughton  (husband, Deacon), Pat McConagha (wife, Kay), Deidre (McConagha) Austen (husband, Ed), and Marty McConagha (wife, Shannon). They also have eight grandchildren. Dave was the brother of Linda Kelly (husband, Lew), Nancy Tishkoff (husband, Stuart) and Susan Donaldson (husband, Lynn).

      According to Dave’s obituary: “In 1964, David embarked on a 27-year naval career with more than 25 years of flight experience with the A-3B and EA-6B aircraft. His career included teaching mathematics at the U.S. Naval Academy Preparatory School at the Naval Training Center in Bainbridge and flight training in Pensacola, FL and NAS Whidbey in Washington State. As a young navigator, David flew photographic reconnaissance and combat missions with VAP 61 in Vietnam from 1967 to 1969. David later served as a Naval ROTC instructor at Dartmouth College while earning a Master’s degree in Operations Research/Systems Analysis. David’s career continued with stations at NAS Norfolk with the electronic warfare squadron VAQ 138 and commanding officer of VAQ 132. His squadron’s deployments included tours on the aircraft carriers Saratoga and Dwight D. Eisenhower. During his tenure at NAS Whidbey, David attended and graduated from the Naval War College in Newport, RI. 

      “In 1983, David was transferred to the Pentagon where he held successive positions in the offices of the Chief of Naval Operations and the Director for Operations, Joint Staff. David was directly involved with policy, requirements, and operational control of U.S. military forces. Upon retirement from the Navy in 1991, David continued to serve our country as the Director, Office of Weapons Surety, for the U.S. Department of Energy. His responsibilities included nuclear weapons safety, security, and coordination with the Department of Defense. In the international arena, David contributed to both the North Atlantic Treaty Organization nuclear weapons safety and security programs, and cooperative surety efforts with the United Kingdom. He traveled frequently to the republics of the former Soviet Union to assist in the safe, secure dismantlement of their nuclear weapons. David retired from the Department of Energy in 1997.

     “David was a member of the VFW Fleet Reserve Association, Military Officers Association, and a lifetime member of the Vietnam Veterans of America. Along with other commendations, he was awarded the Defense Superior Service Medal (with gold star), multiple Navy Air Medals and Strike/Flight Awards, Navy Unit Commendation (with one bronze star), Navy Expeditionary Medal, Vietnam Service Medal (with one silver star), Sea Service Deployment Ribbon (with one bronze star), Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross Unit Citation, Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal, Meritorious Unit Commendation (with one bronze star), and the Meritorious Service Medal.

     “David served several tenures as Senior Warden at Grace Episcopal Church in Brunswick, MD. In retirement, David became an active member of the American Legion, Post 166 in Ocean City, MD. David was a long-time member of the Barbershop Harmony Society, and was recognized as Barbershopper-of-the-Year when singing with the Catoctones in Frederick, MD. He later spent countless happy hours rehearsing and performing with The Chorus of the Chesapeake and singing baritone in several quartets. David’s retirement afforded him time to boat on the Susquehanna River, volunteer at the USNTC Museum in Bainbridge, MD, and visit Ireland to explore first-hand the genealogy he had spent so much time researching. David also was an avid attendee at sports and school events for his grandchildren. Some of David’s favorite days were filled with Ocean City trips in his convertible, listening to Willie Nelson and Patsy Cline, with his dog, Eli, by his side.

      “A service was held at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, 303 N. Main Street, Bel Air, MD on March 30, 2019.’ “

      It seems like the class futures in the Reynolians of both Dave and Jeannette were pretty accurate. Jeannette continues to sing and Dave did have something to do with Russia and security. Sometimes our former classmates make predictions we never would imagine to come true.

Suzy Millar Miller, 75, of Georgetown, Texas, passed away on Thursday, February 8th, 2024, at a hospital in Austin, Texas. She was the beloved wife of Chuck, and loving mother of Julie Ann and Carl “CC” Clinton Miller.

Suzy retired from IBM as an auditor and technical writer. She kept busy in her retirement continuing as a Lifetime Member of the West Licking Historical Society, Pickerington-Violet Township Historical Society, as well as the Reynoldsburg-Truro Historical Society (RTHS), where she held the office for many, many decades as the Corresponding Secretary on the Board of Directors. She was a lead writer for the organizational bi-monthly newsletter, the Courier. Her five-part series “A Walk Down Main Street” was shared and read by over 29,185 people. She co-authored a book, “Reynoldsburg High School 1899 to 1970”that contains pictures of all the class composites we have on the walls at our Museum. She spent eight years researching for the book because our composites go back to 1899, but the school’s first graduating class was in 1871. Every student is listed, along with the faculty she could locate.

She was heavily involved with many Reynoldsburg High School classes, including her own graduation class from 1966. She acted as their Reunion Coordinator and Database Manager for decades. When Reynoldsburg had an active Alumni Association, she participated in that group and helped out whenever possible, typing programs, or helping with mailers. For several years, she hosted an all-alumni bash at the VFW Post #9473 in Reynoldsburg. She created commemorative books for at least six or seven different classes including 1956, 1964, 1965, 1966, 1967, and 1970.

She served as the pianist for the Reynoldsburg High School Chorus throughout her entire high school career and was the accompanist for the youth choir at the United Methodist Church. Music has always been an important part of her life.

Suzy was a past Regent for the Mathias Ridenour Chapter of the National Society for the Daughters of the American Revolution (NSDAR). She is very proud of her heritage as evidenced by the DAR emblem on the back of her tombstone.

She met with Girl Scout Troop 505 whenever she came to town. They were formed in the 1950s when the girls were Brownies, and their leaders were Polly Cornell and Nina Bennett. After the girls flew from Brownies to Girl Scouts, they remained Scouts until they graduated from High School in 1966. Suzy’s mother, Maebelle was a Scout leader for the 1964 graduating class age group.    

Suzy’s claim to fame came in the form of a frog. February 2nd was known to all her friends and her entire family as the official Ground Frog’s Day. There was a celebration every year. After 40 years of Frog parties, the final Ground Frog Party was held on February 4, 2012. In her last newsletter story, she recommended that we should each start our own holiday. She said, “It can be about a collection of items, a special family date, or anything we choose. The important point is to keep it consistent and not a traditional holiday, so it becomes a personal time that reminds people of you and how you care for those around you.”

Suzy is survived by her son, Carl Clinton Miller, nephews, Brian and Chris Millar, and many cousins, including Sharon (Cosner) Sellitto, Mary Ann Klein, and Peggy Anstaett.. She was preceded in death by her father, Paul Clinton Millar in 1984, her brother, Michael Paul Millar in 1991; mother, Maebelle Leona (Weber) Millar in 1998, her daughter, Julie Ann Miller in 2000, and her devoted husband, Charles (Chuck) William Miller in 2010.She will be buried in the Odd Fellows Cemetery, Georgetown, Williamson County, Texas, USA.  

A Celebration of Life event took place on Saturday, June 29th, at the Cotner Funeral Home, 7369 East Main Street in the Historic District of old Reynoldsburg. We started with visitation of friends and family from 2:00pm to 3:30pm. The service was at 3:30pm. Following the service, we all walked together down the alley to the museum for refreshments at 1485 Jackson Street (across the street from the Hannah J. Ashton school). 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be submitted in Suzy’s memory to: the Reynoldsburg-Truro Historical Society, PO Box 144, Reynoldsburg, OH 43068-0144

Suzy may be gone, but she will never be forgotten. Her legacy will live on forever. What she gave to this community is more precious than gold. She gave us her stories, her background, her memories, and most importantly, her friendship. 

God Bless You Suzy. Rest in peace.